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People say that when you're doing something and it's particularly hard, it means you should stop doing it because the universe is letting you know that it's not for you

People say that when you do something and it's particularly hard, it means the devil is working against you because he doesn't want you to get it . Or maybe the universe wants to test how much you want it, and when you get it, it'll be the best thing ever

People should just SHUT D * UP and mind their own business.

 People should just stop coming up with random quotes that suit their life and/or feelings at that moment. It's confusing to the rest of us.

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